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The inequality of murder

Doron Isaacs
Opinion
Doron Isaacs writes about the murder of Mnoneleli Ngubo, his friend and a fellow leader in Equal Education.

Mnoneleli Ngubo was talented at grinning and talking. The last time I saw him, one week ago in my office, he spoke at such length that I literally began to drift off to sleep. Mnoneleli was known to all as ‘Mylord’, the provenance of which I do not know, but it stuck because it somehow fit: he was larger than life. None of us will hear his stories again, because Mnoneleli was murdered last night, in his bed, in Khayelitsha.

He is the fifth member of Equal Education to be killed in the past three years.

In October 2009 one of the brightest stars in EE, Simthembile Sitsha, a grade 11 learner at KwaMfundo High School, was killed, as he crossed the street, in a hit and run accident. In August 2010 Mzikayise Boto, a grade 11 at Harry Gwala High School, was stabbed to death. A year later in September 2011, Akhona Sojola, who matriculated in 2010 at Harold Cressy High School, was also stabbed to death. Only two weeks ago, the body of Siphe Somlenze, a 15-year old grade 9 at Thembelihle High School, was found on Monwabisi Beach. And this morning we awoke to the news of Mylord’s passing.

All of the above lived in Khayelitsha. Simthembile, Akhona and Mylord were members of the Leadership Committee elected by the high school members of Equal Education.

In 2011 Mylord was selected for a year-long EE post-matric program that combines academic development with leadership training. At the end of the program the participants re-write most of their matric subjects, in the hope that they can access tertiary education with improved marks. Mylord struggled bitterly with his school work, and thought more than once about running away to the Eastern Cape. But he persevered with great courage. In the end he managed to improve his Physical Science mark from 17% to 43%, and his Life Science mark from 29% to 43%. He became the proud holder of a National Senior Certificate.

Each member of the program was allocated a mentor for the year, and Mylord and I were paired together. He initially told me that he didn’t need a mentor, but that if I wanted to be friends he would accept that, which I did. His pride slowly gave way. Mylord was known for his temper, but I never saw that side of him. Sometimes we would walk and chat at length, and other times we would watch a movie together so that I could avoid three non-stop hours of his infinite ability to talk. I got to know him quite well.

He recruited many people into Equal Education, but his best achievement was to recruit his older sister, Cilia Ngubo. Cilia began to volunteer at EE and was eventually given the duty of preparing the staff lunch every Friday. Today she is EE’s bookkeeper, fully trained on the latest accounting software, and a tyrant of financial accountability.

It goes without saying that this article will be all that will appear in the mainstream press about Mylord’s murder. None of the other four murders were reported on. Let us imagine just for a moment that a leading graduate of a one of our plush private schools had been killed last night. Such a tragedy would not pass so unnoticed.

But Khayelitsha is a distant unknown place for those of us who live around the mountain. So far removed from the city it is, that we don’t even pass it when driving to the airport. It is a land where electricity wires crisscross the streets in their dozens, bringing some light and heat to a distant shack. Streets and neighbourhoods are unsignposted, and usually unlit. Its entrance is marked only by enormous billboards advertising alcohol, cynically perched high above the squalor below. One must drive down Lansdowne Road with enormous caution to avoid the scores of potholes that damage uninsured vehicles daily, including the taxis that then careen off the highways.

Shacks are stacked on mud, side by side with jagged pathways running between. Water seeps through the roofs and the floors, the same floors on which many children sleep. It is rare to find a child under five who looks healthy. Every nose is running. Whole communities share a few outdoor toilets.

From such a place come the petrol attendants, the factory workers, the garbage collectors, and the domestic workers of Cape Town.

There is no simple answer to the question of why such a place should exist. There are many reasons, some beyond even the immediate control of governments. But such poverty and humiliation – the kind that produce young men who kill other young men, and beat women – exist also because our society has an unusually high tolerance for inequality and the degradation of human beings.

We twist and turn through what Edward Said called “magic thinking”, a style of reasoning that blurs the distinction between truth and fiction so as to make a man-made, deliberately constructed disaster seem like a necessary or at least an acceptable thing. It is the essence of magical thinking, he said, to make light of what is in fact heavy.

It is a society driven by the logic of Cllr JP Smith, who in 2010 said that extra policing would not be provided for Khayelitsha hotspots because its residents did not pay rates. Instead of building understanding we absorb the ignorance of Gareth Cliff who asks why, if people are so poor, are they also so fat? Rather than sharing we covet the wealth and arrogance of Kenny Kunene.

In a society where quality education is available to all, the logic of hard work takes root quite naturally. But in ours, where knowledge and skill are commodities that only a few can buy, the rest are left to plot more magical, disastrous and tragic pathways to success. Khanyi Mbau therefore becomes a role-model.

What Mylord fought for was something a little different, a decent society based on solidarity. The level of investment and reform that will be needed to achieve this is not even under discussion. The work now to be done will surely be harder without him.

Isaacs is the co-ordinator of Equal Education. He wrote this article on Thursday morning.

Comments

Submitted by viwe jack-gcilishe on

This is really sad, I cannot imagine the anguish his family is going through.
I knew MyLord from EE as frequently used to attend their meerings.
He was quite the character, very talk-active. No one derserves to be killed.

Submitted by viwe Jack-gcilishe on

I meant to say: I knew MyLord from EE, I used to attend EE meetings in my high school years.

When is his funeral?

Submitted by GroundUp Editor on

The latest we have heard is that the funeral will be on Saturday, 21 July.

Submitted by Samuel Fenyane on

I have met and known MyLord through EE in Capetown during camps and other activities of EE. He was a young man with energy and indeed a better future! SA has lost another giant....death not be proud.

Submitted by Nomzekelo Marala on

I known MyLord through Equal Education and I can say he was such a nice person nd a leader. He left me with a play that we did together for the closing in 2008 that was held at Chris-Hani. I will always miss him.....RIP Mnoneleli Ngubo

Submitted by Nomzekelo Marala on

I known MyLord through Equal Education and I can say he was such a nice person nd a leader. He left me with a play that we did together for the closing in 2008 that was held at Chris-Hani. I will always miss him.....RIP Mnoneleli Ngubo

Submitted by andile on

He was black. He lived in a morgue waiting! The black zone is a zone of death so that the white zone my live!

Submitted by Point Blank on

What the hell is a white zone? It didn't take long before race was dragged into this, sad when it is black people killing black people and someone makes it a white man's fault...

Submitted by Humanity on

This has nothing to do with race. It's a terrible tragedy and a blow to humanity in general.

RIP Mylord.

May justice always prevail.

Submitted by caroline on

oh, that is for point blank. It is very very sad. People who work in equal education as volunteers give me hope I never dreamed of having that one day instead of being the devil's laboratory of injustice, in SA every one would be entitled to the same levels of nurture, protection, and fulfillment of potential. Some say we cannot afford it as a nation. If that cannot be achieved, then lets do what we can afford, if every child cannot be precious, then let then all be exposed to equal levels of abandonment, violation and frustration.

Submitted by Keith on

thank you for taking the time to put a person to name. how easily life is snuffed out. there is no good reason, certainly no acceptable excuse to justify taking away of so many talented people, who had yet to realize their true potential. today I am a better person at least for reading your vision of Mnoneleli Ngubo "mylord". Apparently he had a lot to say, not enough time. Some have said we die three times: when we take our last breath, when our body turns to dust and when our name is uttered for the last time. those who know him, utter his name a few more times, so his life, he doesn't die totally.

Submitted by jay on

My heart goes out to all the people who knew this young man when you grow up with just enough to survive sometimes education doesnt seem like a necessity. Mnoneleli seems to have realised that there was more to his life and that education could give a great start in life. My question is why are these cases being ignored it seems like someone is specifically targeting these individuals who are at EE and from what i read the SAPS is doing very little if not nothing at all. i believe its imperative something be done to redress these criminal acts because its such incidents that stir vigilantism in communities. everybody has the right to life and one cant go around fearing for their life because they are trying to attain an education or for whatever reason these young souls were target for.I also feel that their families regardless of their socio-economic status deserve to know what happened to their children it is no longer enough for the police to just ignore cases because of status the right to life and closure is for anyone regardless of status,gender or age. i hope the tragic passing of these individuals was not in vain and that justice will be done. this storymade me realise that all the nameless faces around us have a story to tell that will inspire us to be better people to some Mnoneleli may have been the guy who lives next door been the young man who lives next door but to others he was a beacon of hope a living testament that theres so much more to life and that we have have only to reach out and we may just inspire those around us to appreciate life and strive to achieve their goals for nothing is impossible with a little faith!

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